I haven't been here very long, I want to state that clearly.
But now I feel that I belong, I state that most sincerely.
The staff that's here are very kind, with what they have to say.
It's as if things were all designed to start me on my way.
I sat down to a splendid meal, it was hot and tasty, too.
It was difficult to conceal the pleasures that I knew.
The bus ride simply added more, with Donna at the wheel.
I sense that good things lay in store ... that's just the way I feel!
I felt the kind of atmosphere that added to the fun.
And, I well know my being here made me the lucky one!
There are those times when things go well, at a smooth and pleasing pace.
And, at this time, I now can tell that I have found the place!
Thanks to all of you who made me feel most welcome.
One final thought:
So many things are going on, so... where does one begin?
I'm sure before this week is gone that I'll be joining in.
Monday, December 29, 2008
Sunday, August 31, 2008
Safely Home
I am home in Heaven, dear ones;
Oh! so happy and so bright!
There is perfect joy and beauty
In this everlasting light.
All the pain and grief is over,
Every restless tossing passed;
I am now at peace forever,
Safely home in Heaven at last.
-anon
Sometimes a sudden surprising incident or an event can take place before our eyes which can strongly influence or even change perspective of our life. This is one such incident that took place in the Senior Center of East Brunswick, NJ.
This I can say has surprised and influenced me as well as all the others who were present as witnesses in the Center on that day. The Center was established more than 30 years ago by the efforts of a local Lutheren Church. It was initially started as a community center for older people to keep them active and happy. Thus it was to care for the welfare of seniors in the Township. I became a member of the Center about 8 years back after coming to know about many activities which are helpful and interesting.
This incident which I narrate here is a unique one which I am sure the reader will find not only interesting but also helpful in understanding how God works things out in His own miraculous way for our good.
The day at the Center started as usual with normal actvities. The morning tea, exercises, games, lunch, etc. It was past noon and seniors were preparing for events to follow. Some were assembling for Memory Matters discussion group and some others were preparing to take part in Strength exercise classes.
Marion, an active, healthy looking senior in late 70s who looks far younger than her age is a regular in strength exercise classes besides knitting. On that day, she came to the Center driving by herself and signed up at the front desk as usual. As she was proceeding to the hall to participate in the exercise classes, she felt a sudden pang of pain and slowly slipped and fell on the carpet unconscious.
An alarm was raised by a fellow member calling for help which alerted the Director and the other staff. Soon the staff came rushing to help her and the Director called Emergency. Each and every staff took their turn in trying to revive her and also to clear the place.
The assistant Director who heard the call, stopped the Memory Matters class and came rushing to help and maintain order as the members were anxious and restless to know the development. Efforts to bring Marion to consciousness failed . The ambulance came and the Emergency staff took over and took her to Robert Wood Johnson Hospital for treatment.
The next day, when members came to the Center we were shocked to know that all efforts to bring her back to life failed and she died without regaining consciousness. A Memorial service was arranged in the N. Brunswick Presbytarian Church. All of us at the Center attended led by the Assistant Director. At the service, we came to know many important and interesting things.
Marion who is 79 years old was living in an apartment in East Brunswick alone after her husband's death. She pushed back all her sorrows and joined the Center and the Church. She lived a bold life, making a difference in the community in which she lived. She participated in the Church choir, taught Sunday School and took an active part in various activities. She was ever present in any need of a family especially as a counsel or advisor to children and was recognized as a leader of the community. She also helped her neighbours extending a helping hand and maintaining good relationship.
At the service, several members of the Center and Church as well as friends recalled her services singing hymns of her liking. Many families acknoweldged her as part of their family and many children expressed their grief at the loss of their loving teacher and mentor. One of her neighbours collected all her pictures and arranged a good display of her life in pictures.
All this will not however give the full or least glimpse of the worthy life she lived. What transpired and convinced one and all, especially at the Center was the sudden death and unexpected eternal call. Everyone was happy that it did not happen while she was alone at home or driving.
She had a nice closing and peaceful end and it gave us an opportunity to witness and understand God's timing and His wonderful deed. The members of the Center have become a part of Marion's family encountering her last journey.
- Samuel Raya
Oh! so happy and so bright!
There is perfect joy and beauty
In this everlasting light.
All the pain and grief is over,
Every restless tossing passed;
I am now at peace forever,
Safely home in Heaven at last.
-anon
Sometimes a sudden surprising incident or an event can take place before our eyes which can strongly influence or even change perspective of our life. This is one such incident that took place in the Senior Center of East Brunswick, NJ.
This I can say has surprised and influenced me as well as all the others who were present as witnesses in the Center on that day. The Center was established more than 30 years ago by the efforts of a local Lutheren Church. It was initially started as a community center for older people to keep them active and happy. Thus it was to care for the welfare of seniors in the Township. I became a member of the Center about 8 years back after coming to know about many activities which are helpful and interesting.
This incident which I narrate here is a unique one which I am sure the reader will find not only interesting but also helpful in understanding how God works things out in His own miraculous way for our good.
The day at the Center started as usual with normal actvities. The morning tea, exercises, games, lunch, etc. It was past noon and seniors were preparing for events to follow. Some were assembling for Memory Matters discussion group and some others were preparing to take part in Strength exercise classes.
Marion, an active, healthy looking senior in late 70s who looks far younger than her age is a regular in strength exercise classes besides knitting. On that day, she came to the Center driving by herself and signed up at the front desk as usual. As she was proceeding to the hall to participate in the exercise classes, she felt a sudden pang of pain and slowly slipped and fell on the carpet unconscious.
An alarm was raised by a fellow member calling for help which alerted the Director and the other staff. Soon the staff came rushing to help her and the Director called Emergency. Each and every staff took their turn in trying to revive her and also to clear the place.
The assistant Director who heard the call, stopped the Memory Matters class and came rushing to help and maintain order as the members were anxious and restless to know the development. Efforts to bring Marion to consciousness failed . The ambulance came and the Emergency staff took over and took her to Robert Wood Johnson Hospital for treatment.
The next day, when members came to the Center we were shocked to know that all efforts to bring her back to life failed and she died without regaining consciousness. A Memorial service was arranged in the N. Brunswick Presbytarian Church. All of us at the Center attended led by the Assistant Director. At the service, we came to know many important and interesting things.
Marion who is 79 years old was living in an apartment in East Brunswick alone after her husband's death. She pushed back all her sorrows and joined the Center and the Church. She lived a bold life, making a difference in the community in which she lived. She participated in the Church choir, taught Sunday School and took an active part in various activities. She was ever present in any need of a family especially as a counsel or advisor to children and was recognized as a leader of the community. She also helped her neighbours extending a helping hand and maintaining good relationship.
At the service, several members of the Center and Church as well as friends recalled her services singing hymns of her liking. Many families acknoweldged her as part of their family and many children expressed their grief at the loss of their loving teacher and mentor. One of her neighbours collected all her pictures and arranged a good display of her life in pictures.
All this will not however give the full or least glimpse of the worthy life she lived. What transpired and convinced one and all, especially at the Center was the sudden death and unexpected eternal call. Everyone was happy that it did not happen while she was alone at home or driving.
She had a nice closing and peaceful end and it gave us an opportunity to witness and understand God's timing and His wonderful deed. The members of the Center have become a part of Marion's family encountering her last journey.
- Samuel Raya
Thursday, August 21, 2008
My place - Dhanesh Merchant
I love to play pool
But have no cue!
I enjoy exercise
But have no bike!
I play Bingo
Now know where to go!
I like my bus rides
It saves me gas besides!
Games, cards, computers and much more
I don't feel alone, I am a Senior
I know,who takes care
East Brunswick Senior Center -my place
But have no cue!
I enjoy exercise
But have no bike!
I play Bingo
Now know where to go!
I like my bus rides
It saves me gas besides!
Games, cards, computers and much more
I don't feel alone, I am a Senior
I know,who takes care
East Brunswick Senior Center -my place
Wednesday, August 20, 2008
2008 Summer Olympics - Sam Prabhakar Raya
The 2008 Summer Olympic Games, officially known as the Games of the XXIX Olympiad, is a major international multi - sport event which is being held in Beijing, People's Republic of China, from August 8 to August 24, 2008. A total of 10,500 athletes are expected to compete in 302 events in 28 sports. The Olympic slogan, One World, One Dream, calls upon the world to unite in the Olympic spirit.
- From Wikipedia
Except for the winning of individual Gold medal by Abhinav Bindra in the ten meter Air Rifle event, the Indian contingent of 55 athletes have drawn almost a blank in the Olympics. I would like to bring to your attention one noteworthy achievement of India, which no other country can boast of, it is noteworthy because it is not a national one or government sponsored one.
A remote town Karimnagar in Andhra Pradesh has risen to the heights of fame by exporting thousands of tons of granite to Beijing.This blue stained grey granite is a rare form in rectangular blocks of more than a cubic meter in sizes. The rough blocks are sliced, refined and polished to suit and fit their requirements. The cost is Rupees 11,000 ( $275 approx) per ton.
Only recently Karimnagar was connected by rail. The granite was transported from this town all the way to the Vizag port and shipped to Beijing.
The city of Hyderabad founded in the sixteenth century is famous for its prestigeous historical monuments. The Charminar, the Golconda Fort and Kutub Shahi Tomb attract tourists from all over the world. We are proud of the splendour of these famous structures.
When I see the infrastructure and facilities in this country, I yearn for development of such facilities in India also.
- From Wikipedia
Except for the winning of individual Gold medal by Abhinav Bindra in the ten meter Air Rifle event, the Indian contingent of 55 athletes have drawn almost a blank in the Olympics. I would like to bring to your attention one noteworthy achievement of India, which no other country can boast of, it is noteworthy because it is not a national one or government sponsored one.
A remote town Karimnagar in Andhra Pradesh has risen to the heights of fame by exporting thousands of tons of granite to Beijing.This blue stained grey granite is a rare form in rectangular blocks of more than a cubic meter in sizes. The rough blocks are sliced, refined and polished to suit and fit their requirements. The cost is Rupees 11,000 ( $275 approx) per ton.
Only recently Karimnagar was connected by rail. The granite was transported from this town all the way to the Vizag port and shipped to Beijing.
The city of Hyderabad founded in the sixteenth century is famous for its prestigeous historical monuments. The Charminar, the Golconda Fort and Kutub Shahi Tomb attract tourists from all over the world. We are proud of the splendour of these famous structures.
When I see the infrastructure and facilities in this country, I yearn for development of such facilities in India also.
Monday, August 18, 2008
America the Wonderful - Trikkur Krishnan
I have been visiting the USA since 1987 and this is my tenth visit. Now, I have started losing confidence of travelling alone to and fro.A friend of mine suggested that I can take an escort. Is it practical? I have decided to settle down in USA.
I tell my friends in India that parents visiting their children in USA become bored as their children leave for work early in the morning and return late at night. Except for the week ends, they are left alone without any contact or engagement.
Now that I settled in USA, I joined the senior center where I could meet many friends and spend time usefully. In every town, there is a senior center where various activities like card games, pool games, exercises, etc. are offered. This helps elderly people to mingle with friends and engage themselves physically and mentally and lead a healthy, meaningful and peaceful life.
Recently we moved to East Brunswick and our house is located right across senior center. With the senior center and Library in easy reach, my life has become interesting.
We celebrated India Independence Day with pomp and show. Music, dance and fun. We dressed in traditional dress and served Indian dessert to all.
I wish every member a happy and healthy life.
I tell my friends in India that parents visiting their children in USA become bored as their children leave for work early in the morning and return late at night. Except for the week ends, they are left alone without any contact or engagement.
Now that I settled in USA, I joined the senior center where I could meet many friends and spend time usefully. In every town, there is a senior center where various activities like card games, pool games, exercises, etc. are offered. This helps elderly people to mingle with friends and engage themselves physically and mentally and lead a healthy, meaningful and peaceful life.
Recently we moved to East Brunswick and our house is located right across senior center. With the senior center and Library in easy reach, my life has become interesting.
We celebrated India Independence Day with pomp and show. Music, dance and fun. We dressed in traditional dress and served Indian dessert to all.
I wish every member a happy and healthy life.
Thursday, August 14, 2008
History of Hyderabad - Bhavani Raya
My husband Sam Prabhakar Raya and myself came to the United States of America in 1999.Our two children have settled here with their jobs and we came here to join them. We are from Hyderabad, state capital of Andhra Pradesh, India. Here are some historical facts of Hyderabad.
Hyderabad was founded on the river Musi five miles east of Golconda in 1591-92 AD by Muhammad Quali Qutab Shah. In the 16th century the city grew rapidly along the banks of river Musi. At that time, Golconda was the capital of the rulers of Qutab Shahi dynasty. It is one of the five kingdoms that emerged after the break up of the Bahamani Kingdom. This dynasty ruled for nearly 171 years contributing to the growth and development of Hyderabad. During their rule, Golconda became one of the leading markets in the world of diamonds, pearls, steel and printed fabric. The glory of Golconda Kingdom ended in 1687.
Then Asif Jahi declared independence from Mughal rule in 1724 and thus became the first Nizam and the founder of the Asif Jahi dynasty. The seven successive Nizams of Asif Jahi dynasty ruled the deccan for nearly 224 years right up to 1948. During Asif Jahi period, Persian, Urdu, Telugu and Marathi languages developed simultaneously.
The highest official positions were given to deserving persons irrespective of their religion. Persian was the official language until 1893 and then Urdu became the official language until 1948.
The rule of the seven Nizams saw the growth of Hyderabad both culturally and economically. Huge reservoirs like the Nizam Sagar, Tungabadra Dam, Osman Sagar, Himayath Sagar and other dams were built. Hyderabad under the Nizams was the largest princely state in India. Areawise, it was as big as England and Scotland put together. The state had its own currency, mint, railways and postal systems. There was no income tax.
Soon after India gained Independence, Hyderabad state merged with Union of India. On November 1, 1956 the map of India was redrawn into linguistic states and Hyderabad became the capital of Andhra Pradesh
Hyderabad was founded on the river Musi five miles east of Golconda in 1591-92 AD by Muhammad Quali Qutab Shah. In the 16th century the city grew rapidly along the banks of river Musi. At that time, Golconda was the capital of the rulers of Qutab Shahi dynasty. It is one of the five kingdoms that emerged after the break up of the Bahamani Kingdom. This dynasty ruled for nearly 171 years contributing to the growth and development of Hyderabad. During their rule, Golconda became one of the leading markets in the world of diamonds, pearls, steel and printed fabric. The glory of Golconda Kingdom ended in 1687.
Then Asif Jahi declared independence from Mughal rule in 1724 and thus became the first Nizam and the founder of the Asif Jahi dynasty. The seven successive Nizams of Asif Jahi dynasty ruled the deccan for nearly 224 years right up to 1948. During Asif Jahi period, Persian, Urdu, Telugu and Marathi languages developed simultaneously.
The highest official positions were given to deserving persons irrespective of their religion. Persian was the official language until 1893 and then Urdu became the official language until 1948.
The rule of the seven Nizams saw the growth of Hyderabad both culturally and economically. Huge reservoirs like the Nizam Sagar, Tungabadra Dam, Osman Sagar, Himayath Sagar and other dams were built. Hyderabad under the Nizams was the largest princely state in India. Areawise, it was as big as England and Scotland put together. The state had its own currency, mint, railways and postal systems. There was no income tax.
Soon after India gained Independence, Hyderabad state merged with Union of India. On November 1, 1956 the map of India was redrawn into linguistic states and Hyderabad became the capital of Andhra Pradesh
Wednesday, August 13, 2008
Rate my song - Dhanesh Merchant
American Senior Idol contest was held at the Piscataway Senior Center on May 7, 2008 and Dhanesh Merchant was furtunate to take part and sang the following song on religious tolerance:
Gold and World Peace
- Dhanesh Merchant
Should I call you Allah or Jesus
or Krishna or Ram
You are the only one and one only
with so many names.
To seek you some go to church
and some go to mosque,
To find you, some go to synagogue
and some go to temple.
Who comes to you
They all get your love,
Poor or rich
They are all equal to you.
Should I call you Allah or Jesus
or Krishna or Ram,
You are the only one and one only
with so many names.
This is mine and that is yours
We fight for Your place Jerusalem,
With the Hindu-Muslim, Jews-Arab wars
Everyone is unhappy in the world.
Open your eyes and think in your mind
God has shown only one path,
Live in Peace, Live in Green
Stop violence, win with love
God will give happiness to everyone.
Please visit
www.contest.senioridol.com
and rate the performers.
Gold and World Peace
- Dhanesh Merchant
Should I call you Allah or Jesus
or Krishna or Ram
You are the only one and one only
with so many names.
To seek you some go to church
and some go to mosque,
To find you, some go to synagogue
and some go to temple.
Who comes to you
They all get your love,
Poor or rich
They are all equal to you.
Should I call you Allah or Jesus
or Krishna or Ram,
You are the only one and one only
with so many names.
This is mine and that is yours
We fight for Your place Jerusalem,
With the Hindu-Muslim, Jews-Arab wars
Everyone is unhappy in the world.
Open your eyes and think in your mind
God has shown only one path,
Live in Peace, Live in Green
Stop violence, win with love
God will give happiness to everyone.
Please visit
www.contest.senioridol.com
and rate the performers.
Tuesday, August 12, 2008
Bharatiya ( Indian ) Heritage - Rasikbhai M Shah
The World ia a stage and we are all actors.
The United States of America ia a great country having diversity of cultures, races, religions, among its citizens for the common good. India though proud of its value of life is struggling as a great nation for survival and peace like other developing countries.
Bharatiya (Indian) culture provides balanced approach: 1) for religions, 2)for righteousness,3)for material welfare for common good, 4)for events of pleasures and 5)for unity. The basic tenets of Indian culture are universality of the divinity including pilgrimages, festivals and folk dances. Most of these activities are also celebrated in the United States of America. Some of the towns even permit celebration of Holi Festival (Bon Fire Event).
The Senior Citizen center promotes such activities. Seniors heartily take part. Celebrations of Heritage Day, Independence Day, birthday etc. help seniors to feel connected and aids in developing tolerance. Understanding the differences in culture provides a healthy environment for respectful relationships.
Seniors love to be part of inter-cultural events for creativity and bonding of humanity. They share ideas, practices and experiences with others with an open mind, and have pleasure to be an affectionate senior community.
In conclusion, seniors from East or West feel their best at the East Brunswick Senior Center sharing and enjoying diverse cultures.
The United States of America ia a great country having diversity of cultures, races, religions, among its citizens for the common good. India though proud of its value of life is struggling as a great nation for survival and peace like other developing countries.
Bharatiya (Indian) culture provides balanced approach: 1) for religions, 2)for righteousness,3)for material welfare for common good, 4)for events of pleasures and 5)for unity. The basic tenets of Indian culture are universality of the divinity including pilgrimages, festivals and folk dances. Most of these activities are also celebrated in the United States of America. Some of the towns even permit celebration of Holi Festival (Bon Fire Event).
The Senior Citizen center promotes such activities. Seniors heartily take part. Celebrations of Heritage Day, Independence Day, birthday etc. help seniors to feel connected and aids in developing tolerance. Understanding the differences in culture provides a healthy environment for respectful relationships.
Seniors love to be part of inter-cultural events for creativity and bonding of humanity. They share ideas, practices and experiences with others with an open mind, and have pleasure to be an affectionate senior community.
In conclusion, seniors from East or West feel their best at the East Brunswick Senior Center sharing and enjoying diverse cultures.
Monday, August 4, 2008
America the Great - Prem Wadhera
My first visit to this great country was in 1972, when I came to visit both my daughters. Later on, when I settled here, my daughter in law introduced me to the East Brunswick Senior Center. From that time on, I had regularly attended the center for more than 15 years. I have become so habituated that in the morning when my chores are completed I am in a hurry to get ready with my lunch. I wait for the bus, which comes around 9.30 a.m. to pick me up. I have to call every morning around 8.15 a.m. for pick up.
We arrive the center around 10 a.m. greet each other and settle down at our usual table. It is wonderful to talk, laugh and joke and the day at the center starts with a cup of tea or coffee.
We have a cafeteria, where lunch is served at subsidized rate. I however bring my lunch most of the days.
We have lots of activities at the Center. Different types of exercises, yoga, dances and aerobatics are taught by professionals. We also play games like Bingo, Cards, Mahjong. We are also taught arts and crafts.
The center arranges transport for grocery shopping, banking and to visit other places for sight seeing. We have Birthday Brunch once a month to celebrate the current month birthdays of members. We have discussion groups and I have joined a few of them. The groups meet once a week and I especially enjoy 'Memory Matters' which really helps to improve your memory.
The Public Library next door is a boon. It is very convenient to read newspapers,etc. and attend various events and meetings.
I love the senior center and I am sure I will attend it as long as I am alive.
I must thank Ms. Rachel Steinberg, the Director and Ms. Sharon, Asst. Director and the staff for their dedication and service to run the center efficiently.
We arrive the center around 10 a.m. greet each other and settle down at our usual table. It is wonderful to talk, laugh and joke and the day at the center starts with a cup of tea or coffee.
We have a cafeteria, where lunch is served at subsidized rate. I however bring my lunch most of the days.
We have lots of activities at the Center. Different types of exercises, yoga, dances and aerobatics are taught by professionals. We also play games like Bingo, Cards, Mahjong. We are also taught arts and crafts.
The center arranges transport for grocery shopping, banking and to visit other places for sight seeing. We have Birthday Brunch once a month to celebrate the current month birthdays of members. We have discussion groups and I have joined a few of them. The groups meet once a week and I especially enjoy 'Memory Matters' which really helps to improve your memory.
The Public Library next door is a boon. It is very convenient to read newspapers,etc. and attend various events and meetings.
I love the senior center and I am sure I will attend it as long as I am alive.
I must thank Ms. Rachel Steinberg, the Director and Ms. Sharon, Asst. Director and the staff for their dedication and service to run the center efficiently.
Thursday, July 31, 2008
WORDS OF WISDOM - Jatinder Kaur Riar
Include the following in your 'To Do' list:
1.Think of doing something good to somebody tomorrow and do not tell anybody after doing it.
2.Do some physical work everyday upto sweat.
3.Always remember any piece of advice you get.
4. Promptly write 'thank you' notes.
5.After listening radio call in shows and watching shows, ask yourself if your own problems are really exceptional.
6.Consider what career you would choose, if you were to start over.
7.Think about what really keeps you from starting over ( Do not say 'age')
8.Always lay out clothes for wearing tomorrow. That will make you feel comfortable.
9.Resolve not to start an argument today.
10.Ask and you will receive
11.Seek and you will find
12.Knock and the door will open
13.When you pray, go to your room, close the door and pray to God who is unseen. Your God who sees you and sees what you do in private will reward you.
14.When you fast, wash your face, comb your hair so that others cannot know that you are fasting.
15.Be alert, stand firm in the faith, be brave, be strong. Do all your work with love.
16.Smile is the window to your soul
17.Laughter is door to your soul.
18.Essence of life is oneness. Essence of life is love.
19.Five aspects of God:
1.Totally joyful
2.Totally Love - God says that I am the love that knows no condition, no limitation of any kind.
3.Totally accepting.
4,Totally blessing.
5.Totally grateful.
20.Friendship with God:
Know God
Trust God
Love God
Embrace God
Use God
Help God
Thank God.
1.Think of doing something good to somebody tomorrow and do not tell anybody after doing it.
2.Do some physical work everyday upto sweat.
3.Always remember any piece of advice you get.
4. Promptly write 'thank you' notes.
5.After listening radio call in shows and watching shows, ask yourself if your own problems are really exceptional.
6.Consider what career you would choose, if you were to start over.
7.Think about what really keeps you from starting over ( Do not say 'age')
8.Always lay out clothes for wearing tomorrow. That will make you feel comfortable.
9.Resolve not to start an argument today.
10.Ask and you will receive
11.Seek and you will find
12.Knock and the door will open
13.When you pray, go to your room, close the door and pray to God who is unseen. Your God who sees you and sees what you do in private will reward you.
14.When you fast, wash your face, comb your hair so that others cannot know that you are fasting.
15.Be alert, stand firm in the faith, be brave, be strong. Do all your work with love.
16.Smile is the window to your soul
17.Laughter is door to your soul.
18.Essence of life is oneness. Essence of life is love.
19.Five aspects of God:
1.Totally joyful
2.Totally Love - God says that I am the love that knows no condition, no limitation of any kind.
3.Totally accepting.
4,Totally blessing.
5.Totally grateful.
20.Friendship with God:
Know God
Trust God
Love God
Embrace God
Use God
Help God
Thank God.
INDIA INDEPENDENCE DAY 2007 - Govinda Rajan
Residents of East Brunswick,New Jersey who are sixty years or older are admitted to East Brunswick Senior Center as members, on application. When Republic of India reached the age of 60 on August 15, 2007 ( having received independence from British on August 15, 1947) Ms. Rizpah Corley, an Executive Committee Member of the Center thought it is right time to admit India into the Center and celebrate the Indian Independence Day in a befitting manner. Her proposal to celebrate the day by conducting a dance recital and distributing Indian home made desserts was accepted by Mrs.Rachel Steinberg, the Director.
Rohit Baxi, Founder of Satrangi School of Fusion, Woodbridge readily consented to give a performance without compensation. The function started by singing the 'Star Spangled Banner' by the students and 'Jana Gana Mana' - the Indian National Anthem
The hour long performance by 23 young artists from the dance school was superb. Baxi said that the students were excited to entertain the seniors and it involved three weeks of intense rehearsal and the parents also cooperated by dropping them and picking them up for the rehearsals in spite of their busy schedules.
The members enjoyed the performance and they were spell bound. They also enjoyed the home made desserts brought by the Indian members. We are looking forward the second annual celebration of Indian Independence Day on Friday, August 15, 2008. India Association of Garden State have kindly consented to perform dance recital.
Rohit Baxi, Founder of Satrangi School of Fusion, Woodbridge readily consented to give a performance without compensation. The function started by singing the 'Star Spangled Banner' by the students and 'Jana Gana Mana' - the Indian National Anthem
The hour long performance by 23 young artists from the dance school was superb. Baxi said that the students were excited to entertain the seniors and it involved three weeks of intense rehearsal and the parents also cooperated by dropping them and picking them up for the rehearsals in spite of their busy schedules.
The members enjoyed the performance and they were spell bound. They also enjoyed the home made desserts brought by the Indian members. We are looking forward the second annual celebration of Indian Independence Day on Friday, August 15, 2008. India Association of Garden State have kindly consented to perform dance recital.
Senior Center, East Brunswick NJ - Hira Beltangdi
I have been a member of the East Brunswick Senior Center for the last fifteen years. Every day, I look forward to go to the Senior Center. This is a home away from home for seniors. Especially for seniors who reside alone, this is a boon. They share their feelings with fellow members.
It is the place where you can go everyday and meet your friends. Early in the morning you call the center for transportation. Isn't it great! At the same time, you order your lunch which is served at subsidized rate. When you arrive at the center in the morning, you have coffee or tea and snacks.
There are many activities to participate. You may play Bingo or play cards. Some play mahjong. Once a week, the discussion group 'Memory Matters' meets to share their thoughts. We also have Arts and Crafts class. There is also a Stitch and Sew class once a week. Our products are sold in Craft Bazaar, a fund raising event in November and the proceeds go to the Center.
Transportation is also provided to go to grocery shopping and banking. Special trips are arranged to Atlantic City and to attend various events and shows.
Attending the craft workshop is a wonderful experience. Members of the craft workshop celebrate birthdays of their fellow members every month. My birthday was in April. When I attended the class on that day, Plates and Cups were ready. Several greeting cards and gifts were waiting for me. I was overwhelmed by their affection and recited the following poem:
We are a group of ten
All try hard to reach the goal attain
All work with their golden fingers
Who made craft bazaar successful for years?
All are in 70s, 80s and 90s you know
Some one's leg is hurting
Some one's chest is aching
But the faces are smiling
It is the place where you can go everyday and meet your friends. Early in the morning you call the center for transportation. Isn't it great! At the same time, you order your lunch which is served at subsidized rate. When you arrive at the center in the morning, you have coffee or tea and snacks.
There are many activities to participate. You may play Bingo or play cards. Some play mahjong. Once a week, the discussion group 'Memory Matters' meets to share their thoughts. We also have Arts and Crafts class. There is also a Stitch and Sew class once a week. Our products are sold in Craft Bazaar, a fund raising event in November and the proceeds go to the Center.
Transportation is also provided to go to grocery shopping and banking. Special trips are arranged to Atlantic City and to attend various events and shows.
Attending the craft workshop is a wonderful experience. Members of the craft workshop celebrate birthdays of their fellow members every month. My birthday was in April. When I attended the class on that day, Plates and Cups were ready. Several greeting cards and gifts were waiting for me. I was overwhelmed by their affection and recited the following poem:
We are a group of ten
All try hard to reach the goal attain
All work with their golden fingers
Who made craft bazaar successful for years?
All are in 70s, 80s and 90s you know
Some one's leg is hurting
Some one's chest is aching
But the faces are smiling
Sunday, July 27, 2008
My Dream - Dhanesh Merchant
It was August 10, 1999.
I came from work and was exhausted. Quickly, I took my dinner and sat in the armchair. In a few minutes, I went to sleep and I had a dream.
In that dream, I was in a garden sitting on a bench. The garden was full of flowers, big and small with different colors and fragrances. There was a stream and on the other side of the stream was a small library. The children and their parents coming and going out of the library with books in their hands. There was a walking trail where young couples were walking holding hands. I saw butterflies and bees zooming around those flowers. I was at a perfect place and peaceful.
The wind started blowing and the flowers were afraid for their petals. I heard a sound as if some one murmuring . I changed my position on the bench and started listening the conversation.
One flower complained, why is the gardener not visiting them. Is he sick? Each Friday, the gardener used to come and pick up flowers to take to church, hospitals, funeral homes, weddings and birthday parties. The flowers were waiting for their turn to be picked up. Few flowers were worried because they were losing their petals and if the gardener does not pick them right away, their petals will fall into the stream of water and disappear. The flowers did not like to lose their friends and fall into the stream of water.
At that moment, a small bird with golden wings flew over and sat on the branch close to those flowers. Bird saw one of the flowers weeping. Bird asked 'why are you weeping?' The flower shared its concern that it does not want to lose the petals and die. Bird replied that there is nothing eternal and every one comes and leaves this world. Enjoy your life . Be good and do good. What you carry with you is your deed (karma). All you flowers should be happy and not crying. Throughout your life, you gave fragrance in this garden, you did not harm any one, you attracted bees and helped them make honey. You gave happiness and peace to butterflies and to the people. Even if you die before being picked up, you should be proud of yourself.
All the flowers thought for a while and started smiling and decided not to cry any more. At that moment the bird flew off.
I woke up and started looking for the bird and realized that there was no garden ,no flowers, no bees and no butterflies.There was no library, no stream of water and no one besides me. It was a dream.
After few years, I retired from my work and joined East Brunswick Senior Center. One day, my wife and self went to the Municipal Pond behind the senior center and sat on a bench. All of a sudden I remembered that dream. What a coincidence, here it is a pond instead of stream, senior center instead of a garden and seniors instead of flowers. In my dream, the gardener was taking care of flowers, but here in the senior center, we have caring staff helping the seniors with solving problems, and providing activities and attending their well being.
The only thing that bothered me was 'where is the bird with golden wings?'
If any one see that bird with golden wings, please tell the bird that I want to meet him at the East Brunswick Senior Center.
I came from work and was exhausted. Quickly, I took my dinner and sat in the armchair. In a few minutes, I went to sleep and I had a dream.
In that dream, I was in a garden sitting on a bench. The garden was full of flowers, big and small with different colors and fragrances. There was a stream and on the other side of the stream was a small library. The children and their parents coming and going out of the library with books in their hands. There was a walking trail where young couples were walking holding hands. I saw butterflies and bees zooming around those flowers. I was at a perfect place and peaceful.
The wind started blowing and the flowers were afraid for their petals. I heard a sound as if some one murmuring . I changed my position on the bench and started listening the conversation.
One flower complained, why is the gardener not visiting them. Is he sick? Each Friday, the gardener used to come and pick up flowers to take to church, hospitals, funeral homes, weddings and birthday parties. The flowers were waiting for their turn to be picked up. Few flowers were worried because they were losing their petals and if the gardener does not pick them right away, their petals will fall into the stream of water and disappear. The flowers did not like to lose their friends and fall into the stream of water.
At that moment, a small bird with golden wings flew over and sat on the branch close to those flowers. Bird saw one of the flowers weeping. Bird asked 'why are you weeping?' The flower shared its concern that it does not want to lose the petals and die. Bird replied that there is nothing eternal and every one comes and leaves this world. Enjoy your life . Be good and do good. What you carry with you is your deed (karma). All you flowers should be happy and not crying. Throughout your life, you gave fragrance in this garden, you did not harm any one, you attracted bees and helped them make honey. You gave happiness and peace to butterflies and to the people. Even if you die before being picked up, you should be proud of yourself.
All the flowers thought for a while and started smiling and decided not to cry any more. At that moment the bird flew off.
I woke up and started looking for the bird and realized that there was no garden ,no flowers, no bees and no butterflies.There was no library, no stream of water and no one besides me. It was a dream.
After few years, I retired from my work and joined East Brunswick Senior Center. One day, my wife and self went to the Municipal Pond behind the senior center and sat on a bench. All of a sudden I remembered that dream. What a coincidence, here it is a pond instead of stream, senior center instead of a garden and seniors instead of flowers. In my dream, the gardener was taking care of flowers, but here in the senior center, we have caring staff helping the seniors with solving problems, and providing activities and attending their well being.
The only thing that bothered me was 'where is the bird with golden wings?'
If any one see that bird with golden wings, please tell the bird that I want to meet him at the East Brunswick Senior Center.
Senior Center East Brunswick NJ - Suresh Chandra Shrotri
When experiences are pleasant, comforting and satisfying, one certainly would like to share them with persons of all age groups.
So it is with me today, after being a member of the senior citizens' group at the East Brunswick Center for senior citizens.
This is my fifth visit to the United States since 1989. I first heard of such a center for seniors in 1998 in Kuai Island in Hawaii and wished to join one in my next trip to USA. The opportunity came on July 14th 2008 when Govinda Rajan met me at the Public Library where I was with my host, my daughter. Only on July 15th, I joined the center along with my wife Sushila Shrotriya.
Our stay at the center, though short, has been very satisfying and pleasant. The people of same age group but different nations, different languages and cultures get together so well.
We participate in different games, arts, crafts, outdoor activities and pass time with pleasant experiences. The facilities provided at the center for transport, tea, coffee, lunch, Library, healthcare and many more are very satisfactory. The personnel managing the center are very cordial and cooperative.
I wish more and more seniors join this center making their lives comfortable and the senior citizens' centers of the United States of America go a step ahead in achieving the goals of the United Nations Organization.
So it is with me today, after being a member of the senior citizens' group at the East Brunswick Center for senior citizens.
This is my fifth visit to the United States since 1989. I first heard of such a center for seniors in 1998 in Kuai Island in Hawaii and wished to join one in my next trip to USA. The opportunity came on July 14th 2008 when Govinda Rajan met me at the Public Library where I was with my host, my daughter. Only on July 15th, I joined the center along with my wife Sushila Shrotriya.
Our stay at the center, though short, has been very satisfying and pleasant. The people of same age group but different nations, different languages and cultures get together so well.
We participate in different games, arts, crafts, outdoor activities and pass time with pleasant experiences. The facilities provided at the center for transport, tea, coffee, lunch, Library, healthcare and many more are very satisfactory. The personnel managing the center are very cordial and cooperative.
I wish more and more seniors join this center making their lives comfortable and the senior citizens' centers of the United States of America go a step ahead in achieving the goals of the United Nations Organization.
Senior Center, East Brunswick NJ - Padma Shah
The East Brunswick Senior Center has helped me in many ways. I joined the Senior Center of East Brunswick more than ten years ago. My days and life are structured. It has brought discipline in my every day living.
I rise early around 6 a.m. to do my exercises, my prayer beads, arrange the room by making my bed and putting clothes away. Then I have a cup of tea and medicines. Around 8.30 a.m., I have a light breakfast, and by 9.30 a.m. I am ready to be picked up by senior transport. The bus comes between 9.45 a.m. and 10.00 a.m. We reach the center around 10.30 a.m. It is like arriving at home. All are friends here, there are no strangers. I greet them and settle down at our usual table.
Once a week, we have talks which are very informative and interesting. I have joined a couple of discussion groups. One of them is 'Lets Talk', which I find to be fun. The group is very friendly and discussions are extremely interesting. The other group is 'Memory Matters'. It really helps to improve your memory. We enjoy ourselves in this group too.
There are many other activities like exercise, crafts and card games. Three times a week I play Bingo. Our Bingo group is very friendly and I really enjoy that. At lunch time, a few of us who are vegetarian Indians sit together and share our food, so it is like having a picnic every day.
The biggest advantage of the Center is the Public Library next door. This is very convenient, as I love to read. I feel very independent because I can go on my own whenever I want and browse through books.
Joining the Senior Center is the best thing in my later life. It helps me keep active and alert.
I rise early around 6 a.m. to do my exercises, my prayer beads, arrange the room by making my bed and putting clothes away. Then I have a cup of tea and medicines. Around 8.30 a.m., I have a light breakfast, and by 9.30 a.m. I am ready to be picked up by senior transport. The bus comes between 9.45 a.m. and 10.00 a.m. We reach the center around 10.30 a.m. It is like arriving at home. All are friends here, there are no strangers. I greet them and settle down at our usual table.
Once a week, we have talks which are very informative and interesting. I have joined a couple of discussion groups. One of them is 'Lets Talk', which I find to be fun. The group is very friendly and discussions are extremely interesting. The other group is 'Memory Matters'. It really helps to improve your memory. We enjoy ourselves in this group too.
There are many other activities like exercise, crafts and card games. Three times a week I play Bingo. Our Bingo group is very friendly and I really enjoy that. At lunch time, a few of us who are vegetarian Indians sit together and share our food, so it is like having a picnic every day.
The biggest advantage of the Center is the Public Library next door. This is very convenient, as I love to read. I feel very independent because I can go on my own whenever I want and browse through books.
Joining the Senior Center is the best thing in my later life. It helps me keep active and alert.
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